pray that I may have the grace to let you be my servant,
too.
Brother, let me be your servant, let me be as Christ to
you;
pray that I may have the grace to let you be my servant,
too.
---Richard Gillard, 1974
Lord, make me useful. How can I help? What can I do for you?
How quick we are as a people to offer, and (generally)
follow through with, help, assistance, and support to those around us in need.
And that is awesome. And while we may argue with Joey Tribbiani of Friends fame over whether there is any truly selfless good
deed (“Look, there’s no unselfish good deeds, sorry.”), most of us would agree that serving others makes
the world a kinder, gentler place. We are quick to offer to friends, family,
and even strangers the hand of help, as Charlie Puth sings in his new song:
I’m
only one call away, I’ll be there to save the day,
Superman
got nothing on me, I’m only one call away.
What I am not as good at, and I bet the same could be said
for you, is allowing someone the gift of being servant to me in my need. I
would do nearly anything to not need you. And
that, friends, is a crying shame. Because when I keep you from serving me in my
need (and it is there, let’s not kid each other) I don’t just rob myself of the
aid and comfort you are glad to offer me as your sister. I also fail to
exercise the grace of allowing you to be a servant, to participate in your own
transformation into the likeness of Christ. All because I would swear with my
last breath that I’m just fine.
Let us be each other’s servants. And let us allow others the
holy privilege of serving us. This grace…it’s a mutual dance, never meant as
a solo.