...to answer tough with gentle

Put peace into each other’s hands

With loving expectation;

Be gentle in your words and ways,

In touch with God’s creation.

---Fred Kaan, 1989

This world is not a gentle place. We value strength, even steel resolve in all people, and demand it in our leaders.   One of the leading candidates for national office criticized a decorated war veteran by saying that, “he’s not a war hero. I like people who weren’t captured.” Not tough enough. Several rather progressive social media friends admitted that their list of hopes for the acceptance speech of a major party candidate, the first woman nominee, included the item “just don’t cry”. Not tough enough. We tell our very young boys, and sometimes our girls, to “cowboy up”. Not tough enough.

But we are called by Jesus to live topsy-turvy in this tough world. We are called to answer tough with gentle. Called to walk gently in this tumultuous time, to speak gentle words of peace into cacophony, to use gentle touch to soothe woundedness, to whisper the gentle good news of plenty to the shouted fears of scarcity. To be knocked down, rebuffed, pushed aside, overlooked, disregarded---to have gentleness mistaken for weakness---and tireless, to brush off, and bind up, and gently journey on. With loving expectation.

It’s a tough world. Let’s be gentle out there.